And I’ll show you mine…

The other day I wrote this post, about Home and the idea of homemaking. Since then I’ve been thinking a lot about the things that I feel make my house feel like home… I thought I’d put together a little list…

– good quality lamps. (I hate overhead lighting.) And, if you ask my husband, I have too many lamps.

– various pillows, throws and blankets, in a variety textures.

– family photos. You learn it in attachment parenting- but it’s important for family members to get that visual sense of belonging… I keep photos of my kids everywhere. They remind me of my overflowing cup…

– Color!!! {!!!!}

– beautiful books. I don’t know why, and minimalists everywhere will cringe, I am sure.

– a scent I love. It could be a candle, or through a scentsy pot… I prefer Scentsy and have various pots and plug ins through the house.

– fragments of our family. Maybe it’s keepsakes, starfish from the beach, pottery from New Mexico, etc. As far as I am concerned, it does not have to fit into a theme- it’s about our family…

– a pet. I know a lot of people aren’t animal lovers and that is fine, but we are and our home really is complete (Cue sappy Jerry Maguire music here) because of them.
– Family heirlooms… 

– a personal space… whether it is to read, to write letters or to work on something more artistic. Everyone needs a corner. {In case you need a reminder, mine is HERE!!!! }

– lavender… I know, I’ve said it before, but I really do believe it helps us sleep better.

– a variety of cozy, warm beverages to sip from or to offer to guests.

A few of you said the things about your home that made it “yours” the other day… Being that I love home stuff, these were some of my favorite comments and emails. Taking it one step further, I’d love to read your lists… :)

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Bouquets of newly sharpened pencils…

Complete sidenote, to kick things off, but I LOVE school supplies… It is what I may miss most about homeschooling… 
Getting back to the mind set of having a child in school, I am realizing there is quite a bit I am rusty on.
Like waking up at a reasonable hour, for one… oh, when will the struggle subside??? 
Anyway, I thought I’d post a cute little list (because we all KNOW how much I love lists…) of the things the four of us will need to successfully kick off the 11/12 school year… 
1} a bunch of reusable sandwich bags from Fig Tree Boutique… they are adorable. I am planning on grabbing a Superman one for Chw as well, as that man adores a good sandwich! 
2} I have already mentioned this once, so I’ll refrain from linking it again, but we NEED a good coffee pot. Still torn on which one, of the two, but it can’t arrive soon enough. 
3} this backpack, which Gen picked out and ordered herself. Both her dad and I were sure she’d go with something loud and “tweeny” but she picked this because it was (and to quote) fashionably appropriate. Ok then… Cute though, isn’t it?

4} Target carries my absolute favorite brand of notebooks and papers- Greenroom… LOVE them! I can not get enough of these notebooks… I bought an entire gaggle (i can say gaggle when it comes to paper, can’t i) and I am not about to share. They are mine… And I wouldn’t mind that yellow bag either- but that’s another post…

5} Definitely a few of these… for cocoas and teas, soups and so many other things. MUST HAVE!!!

 6} Locker decor. We’ve purchased shelves, a mirror (insert eye roll here), a lipgloss holder, a dry erase board and super cute magnetic polaroid frames. It’s been fun! Gen, the ever frugal (when it’s her money) drama queen plotted her $15 locker decor budget and is diagramming so that she can maximize her school locker interior design aspirations…

7} And lastly, when all of the pens, pencils, erasers and folders are put away in the backpack, eagerly anticipating the first day of school- the number one thing on my list (next to the coffee pot) is this baby:

While i don’t dry many of my clothes, Genny’s get dried. After hundreds of dollars in school uniforms though, and the incredibly freakish way in which she grows- I’ve decided that her uniform stuff is entering the world of hang drying…

SIDENOTE- while searching for a recommended list of “morning” music to get a family up and going- the number 7 recommended song was Sex Machine, by James Brown. Um, yeah. probably not, but thanks Random Internet List. I think I’ll stick to the Beatles and U2 list I am compiling in my head…

What songs get you going in the morning? (and NOT in the James Brown sort of way…)

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Deep & Wide…

Wow. 
So yesterday’s post was a little deep, eh? 
I can’t even tell you how completely grateful I am for the sweet comments and words. So many beautiful words… So many beautiful readers. 
Many times, per week, I am getting emails from several regular readers telling me their own stories or perceptions of my words and then apologizing because they can not comment on my blog. 
What the heck?!?!?!? 
I am a complete computer moron and have no idea how to rectify this. 
Any wisdom? 
I thought I’d take a moment to thank each and everyone one of you- (yes, even YOU, the silent ones) for your thoughts and prayers over the past week and a half. My goodness, we come home from San Francisco and it felt like the entire world was falling apart. We’re told we’re unexpectedly (and quickly) losing our house… Our sweet Golden Retriever Makaila is super sick… My sister has been diagnosed with another brain tumor… I feel like I am missing something else. I don’t know, maybe I’m not. It was a lot. 
I am here to tell you that… 
– we are NOT losing our house. (we learned so last night.)
– Makaila has a raging UTI and they have her on antibiotics, which she unfortunately keeps vomiting up. 
– No word on my sister, as of yet, but with the knowledge that we’re staying put- it’s a lot less overwhelming to think about how much she’s going to need me. 
Life gets super stressful and heavy sometimes, but there truly is love all around us. It flows deeper than our sorrows and much wider than our eyes and arms can grasp. 
I, for one, am really grateful for this. 
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Whine and Confessions…

– I am sure i’ve expressed on this blog countless times that i am not a fan of change. For five years now, my youngest has been on the waiting list for an amazing school which has the potential to help her so much educationally while furthering her in the directions in which she’s passionately headed. Towards the end of this homeschool year I was really starting to hope and pray that this would be the year that she would finally make it in. I feel like she’s getting to the point where she needs more than I can give her, AND it has just become such a battle, some days. 
So, we got the call, this week, that she made it in. (WOO HOO!) And now, now I’m freaking out… 
– Our family had dental appointments this week. Gen needs oral surgery and braces. It’s a mess. I need to have some repair work done, and a tooth filled. We don’t have dental insurance. Mess… 
– I started seeing a naturalpath. There was a lot leading up to this, but ultimately it was right for me. I knew the initial cost was big, and had saved for it. What i was NOT aware of was that she’d want to see me every 10 days for 40-50 days- at $100+, per visit. 
– Genny needs to go get an eye exam and get new glasses. 
– Chw needs new contacts. 
– We have a very modest family vacation planned and it’s starting to feel like it will have to be completely chopped because within the course of a week we have all of this stuff that needs to be paid for. On top of car repair, normal living expenses, membership dues and renewals. And back to point 1: Uniform costs. Band Instrument costs. Book fees. Embroidery fees. And school starts in just over two months. How is that possible? 
– Which leads me to point out that though I’d have more time to write, (Woo hoo) and such, and my time with Gen would (likely) be much more peaceful- I just realized we would lose our complete time flexibility…
– Yesterday my new doctor asked me what my stress level was. I told her 2. Good thing she hasn’t asked today, it would be 12. 
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The post in which I confess today’s loves…

A hard rain.
The new Panic! At the Disco album. 
International phone calls. 
Blueberry coffee cake for breakfast. 
Parenthood being back on. 
Planning a trip to visit my beautiful friend.
Snuggling with Chw. 
My new summer nightgown. 
Being completely caught up on laundry after NOT doing any for two weeks. 
Grilled flatbread pizzas. 
Thunder. (we haven’t had any, but with all this rain my hope remains steadfast)
Amanda and Genny’s relationship. It does my heart good… 
Anticipation of up and coming movies to be theatrically released. 
Russel Brand. 
That the days are numbered until the patio furniture comes out of storage. 
Being surrounded by fashion sketches. (thanks, Gen!)
Weddings. 
Birthday parties. 
Things I am particularly less fond of, these days, however are- 
Drizzle. 
No Sunshine. 
My inability to breathe clearly. 
Allergies, in general. 
Beef and poultry. 
Germany. 
What are you loving lately? 
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