Far too much to lump in to one tiny title… (unedited due to time- sorry)

And here we are again… Awards season is over. 
I feel, quite honestly, like I woke up this morning after a holiday season of immense family drama and bustling. I am EXHAUSTED, ya’ll… 
Now though, with the hurricane of Amanda leading up to her leaving for boot camp, and Lucas’ time at home- I felt like I had this one night to get through (Oscar night) and then I could rest. {Usually I go straight from the Oscar party to working on Genny’s birthday party BUT the angels broke through  the heavens and sang majestically the day that she announced she did not want a birthday party…} 
So, did you guys watch the Oscars? 
I liked the writing this year, though holy cow the sound tech is likely facing the unemployment line this morning. One questions how he got to do the BIGGEST NIGHT IN HOLLYWOOD with such skills. Nephew of the boring president of the academy, perhaps? Hmmm. 
Few quick things about the actual Academy Awards… 
– Hugo winning pretty much everything technical? Really???? REALLY??? um, no. Nepatism. 
– Meryl? Now I realize she is highly esteemed and obviously very talented… BUT she is also beyond falsely modest and annoying. She wore a dress that appeared to have been made of melted down past Oscars, accompanied by one of those weird belts from the 80’s. It ALSO appeared she had a built in pocket, ready for her new little gold man. Hmm. 
– All I can say is, when she was sure half the world groaned that she won… AGAIN… She was likely hearing the groans and outcries of protest from my party. Yep. I said it… 
– Viola, you won in our eyes… PLUS, your dress actually made sense. 
– When Viola rushed up to congratulate Meryl, I imagined her saying “you’s smart, you’s kind, you’s portant.” and it made the moment a little easier to swallow. {To which Meryl would have replied, Oh stop. No. Well, I am amazing aren’t i? thank you…}
– Jean Dujardin was a cute win. A little swept up in his lofty self opinion maybe, but who knows. It’s a tough scene to really decipher that sort of thing. I was a little sad though, as I think George deserved best Actor, hands down. 
– Speaking of which- Congrats to the Artist. I did, indeed, love that film and knew it would win. That being said, my FAVORITE movie- in the lineup of nominees- was The Descendents. 
– Woody Allen did not deserve his Oscar either. I love that movie, but the only reason it made it on any lists was his name. It’s like he’s a sure win. The Academy is biased loyal like that… 
– Which, to wrap up, I find really interesting because in seasons past, the Academy seemed all about Clint Eastwood. This year, however, he made an AMAZING film and he didn’t get so much as a nod. I wonder what that’s about? 
– BEST two speech moments, hands down: Octavia Spencer thanking the world AND that foreign film guy telling us all to give him a chance and accept him because he’s got a lot of love to give. :) 
Moving on… 
BEST DRESSED… 
i can honestly say, Penelope has never made my best dressed list before but she was classically stunning. Beyond stunning actually… Isn’t she gorgeous? 
Worst dressed and most ironic… 
Worst dressed, because she was practically flashing the world, JLO looked horrible. Ugly dress. Nipple showing. Ridiculous script about being a true and classy lady. Don’t they have rehearsals? And people they pay to work this stuff out? I’d guess JLO’s dresser is filtering some animosity… 
Ironic because, for possibly the first time EVER, JLO made Cameran Diaz appear to be the classiest girl on the planet. Thank’s JLO! 
As for my party… It was kind of simple. Food, wine, friends. Small. It was nice. No formal dinner party, just casual with pajamas and everything… 
 the viewing area… 
 the ballots and Oscar bingo… 
 the wordplay edibles… 

 Minny’s mini chocolate pies… they were delish… and comical as, prior to the 
party, Genny called them “little poop nuggets.” ha ha. 

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Why the quiet…

So, I’ve been a little busy. 
Life stuff. I’m sure you understand… 
Anyway, thought I would give you a glimpse- 
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 Eight weeks of basketball, that are over EXCEPT for one last game… 
 LOADS of good, quality time…

Including Monopoly on the Wii, which Lucas LOVES… 
 {and which I do ok at…}

Happy… Happy, happy, happy… that’s how these past weeks having Lucas home have been. 
Now if we can just all make it to his R & R… 
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Football at it’s absolute finest…

Here we are, just one week away from the Academy Awards and I wanted to take a minute to talk about a nominated documentary that is absolutely amazing. I had the amazing opportunity to screen Undefeated this weekend, and it does not disappoint. 

Undefeated follows the Manassas Tigers football team, in West Memphis Tennessee, throughout one amazingly unforgettable football season. Their volunteer coach Bill Courtney has spent six years giving his everything, (quite literally) to this team of inner city kids. Throughout the film we witness the struggles and difficulties that these boys face every day along with the strengths that Coach Courtney tries to pull out of them as men, through the game of football. While he is their sports coach, his heart is for the hearts of these boys. He wants to teach them how to strive, fight and succeed for more than the lives they are facing. Hoping the metaphor of football and the moments in their journey will show them that they can do anything, if they work hard, and sharpen their characters in the process- Courtney makes the Manassas Tigers the center of his life. 
This is a beautiful story about so many things. An incredible story about doing more, and being more, with a heart for others. This is a story about the courage it takes to journey forward to better our circumstances. This is a gripping tale about a youth and area far more gritty and horrifying that I can comprehend.
Mostly though, this is a moving glimpse of lives saved and changing- and how that process truly does affect everyone and sometimes- being the one to reach someone in need- comes at a great price… 
Come Oscar night I will emphatically root for this film. Most recently Sean Combs (P. Diddy) jumped on board to promote this film. It’s gritty and raw, honest, moving and truly an extraordinary must see… 
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The Vow…

One day Krickitt Carpenter said a humble little prayer. She knew that there was an amazing story resting in the details of her life and her marriage- and she knew that it was a story the world needs to know. That story grossed $41.7 million last weekend, to the surprise of even the studio executives. 
Ten weeks after their walk down the aisle, Kim and Krickitt Carpenter were in a severe car accident. Krickitt suffered extensive brain trauma and as a result, lost a significant amount of her memory- including any recollection of her husband at all. Today, twenty years later they are happily married with two children. Regardless of what the film does or doesn’t portray about their journey back to marital bliss- anyone who has ever said “I do” knows just a touch of how hard that would be. 
If any two people ever had a legitimate reason to walk away from a marriage- it is them. 
But they did not. 
In an era where marriage is taken so lightly that just over 50% of people admit to thinking about their next wedding or spouse within a year of their aisle march- the commitment the Carpenters had is a little challenging to comprehend. 
“I did not fall back in love with my husband right away. It wasn’t all hearts and flowers. It was hard. I had to make the decision to stay and to try, to work through it, because that is what I had promised God that I would do. Eventually the love did come and today I am very much in love with my husband. Love and marriage are choices…” 
How beautiful is that? 
Truly beautiful… 
Getting to talk with Kim and Krickitt was an amazing experience, for me. I was caught completely off guard by their generosity of spirit and kindness. I was beyond humbled by how supportive they were of a movie that- in it’s details alone- seemed like an entirely different story. Their perspective was very much that it was God’s story to begin with, and that they believed it was told the way it needed to be. 
As Kim talked about how very much alive, non-estranged, and present their parents have been- unlike the movie’s character’s parents- something struck me. Krickitt said a prayer, and thus they handed their story over to God to tell it as it needed to be told. Thankfully Kim and Krickitt’s parents were there beside them and through their journey- but most of us can not relate to that. Most of us do sadly come from the estranged or broken home. So, even though that part of the movie wasn’t accurate- it was likely very necessary. 
With the release of the film, the Carpenter’s book was also re-released. I feel that, although the love story in the movie was lovely- their story is so much more amazing because it is real. I was honestly surprised to read a review posted to amazon that stated-  They’re journey through this hardship seemed not very romantic and loving to say the least…

How sad is that? Though not everyone would feel that way, a good portion of us would. 
And this is the mentality that leads our divorce rates to record highs. When the romance and movie-like-butterfly moments dwindle, we tend to move on. 
And I am sorry but, “Not very loving”? What is love, if it isn’t CHOOSING someone, and standing by them, no matter what- putting them first?
Which is exactly why Kim and Krickitt’s story is so amazing… Both in the book and the movie. A vow is an oath, it is a promise. It exists to be unbreakable. 

It is my sincerest hope that this story paves the path to heal hearts and marriages. I know that it is theirs as well because these are truly kind people. Easily one of the most inspiring couples I’ve ever spoken to… 

Have you seen The Vow, or read their book? 
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What integrity can look like…

You guys have figured out, by now, how much I love movies. I would hope that, by now, you guys have also caught on to how passionate Chw and I are about marriage and saving/restoring marriages. As a sidenote, most people who read my blog know that I used to work the entertainment junket scene and have had the privileged of interviewing a good variety of celebrities… So-  
This past weekend I had the chance to see The Vow, starring Rachel McAdams and Channing Tatum. Let me back up a bit though. Roughly a month ago I read about the amazing real-life story of Kim and Krickitt Carpenter- whom the film was inspired by. Last week I caught Rachel McAdams on Ellen and found myself thoroughly impressed with how she continued to direct her answers back to Kim & Krickitt instead of simply promoting the film. That stuck with me, Saturday, as I watched The Vow
I left the film with definite mixed feelings. There were things I loved, and things I didn’t. It was hard to examine it from an entertainment standpoint, knowing just a bit of the truth behind it’s inspiration. What I did know was that so much was changed, and it made me really sad. {But, my 22 year old son was my date for the night and he loved it and wanted to cry- so there ya go.}
This morning I was blessed with the most amazing introduction to Valentines Day possible- I interviewed Kim and Krickitt Carpenter. I have to say, they are amazingly kind people to humor my blubbering and crying. I was about as unprofessional as I could have been, but that’s ok. Their story has moved and inspired me so much. That their marriage was impacted as it was- and they CHOSE to move through it because they had made a vow- just moves me. {And, let the record state- I was far more starstruck by the two of them than any celebrity.} 
I am going to post a little bit more about my interview with the Carpenters tomorrow, but I just really wanted to take a minute- in relation to the film, to summarize something they said to me…
“Hollywood is Hollywood. We knew their would be changes but we really do love the movie. We thought Channing and Rachel did an amazing job. We know how hard they worked to get to know us and study us, and learn how we are. They tell our story, spot on, in that way…” 
I have a new respect for actors. Specifically, for these two. At the end of the day, it’s a job. They do what they are told. Whether it is a true to life scene or not, they act it out because that’s what they are being paid to do. They went beyond their job, and still are in the PR for the film. What a beautiful gift, from them, to feel so strongly about telling the truth… 
I totally need to rewatch The Vow… Have you seen it? What did you think? 
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