all the, small things…

grateful31.} nostalgic music, which shaped me, (and is just often good quality music.)

32.} my husband allows me to know when I need to rest, and when I can do more/be more.

33.} plans, goals, strategies and being a team. That’s so close to everything.

34.} that, after a killer sinus infection and strong prescriptions which played out hard on my body, I’m starting to feel human again.

35.} for little, daily mysteries.

36.} open windows, cool breezes, bird serenades…

37.} the perfect penned letter from one of my oldest and dearest friends.

38.} hilarious texts from Gen, with the WORST typos ever, and the embarrassment that she goes through because she meant DUCK… (So, so, so funny!)

39.} a bad date, with a bad movie and a bad frozen yogurt place, but getting to joke about them and hate them with the man I love more than anyone in the world. Absolutely nothing compares…

40.} an errand run, after a week homebound, complete with my favorite chai.

What stood out in your week?

Perhaps a bacon wrapped pillow would be more appropriate…

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It is minutes til 2 a.m. and I’m so body tired and mind revved up that many states may classify me as a train wreck. (if this is true, please don’t tell me, I don’t want to know.) It’s a sad think to know of tragedy touching the lives of people you care about. There are things in this world I just do not understand… And rather than dwell on them, or try to figure them out (thank God it’s smart enough to know it can’t) my brain is just consumed with thinking about every other thing on the planet. Seriously, everything. All at once.

At any rate, it’s Monday, and that means it’s time for my Hi-Five!

Song– You had to see it coming… I’m not that unpredictable. :)

Share– If you like classic literature, this looks really fun! I’m super excited!

Something I’m loving– Last week, in Chicago, we had bacon wrapped dates at a lovely little restaurant in Algonquin. They were incredible, so this week it’s my quest to find a recipe for them that we love equally.

Something I’m into– oh my gosh. We are very casually house hunting. I say casually because who knows what will happen and we are pretty open to whatever. We’re enjoying the process though (maybe a little too much.) We’re really getting a kick out of house listing photos. What are some of these people thinking? We’ve seen sinks of dirty dishes, mounds of laundry, close-ups of candles (and nothing else.) it’s flat-out nutty! (but so fun!)

Something new (to me)– This one is really tough for me, both to admit and to adapt to. I’m a paper girl. I still use a paper planner and REFUSE to store agenda dates in my iPhone. So, when the reality came up that I would have to loosely organize a bridal shower for my older daughter Amanda (which my youngest daughter Gen is technically throwing, In Idaho, without me) from 2000 miles away and with VERY SHORT notice, I had no choice but to do it electronically. I decided to use Paperless Post and honestly, it’s made things easy to keep track of and the invitations were elegant and cute. Would I make this my preferred method? No. But, it’s not horrible, either.

Are you into anything you’d like to share?

Are you looking forward to anything this week? I feel like I am, but it’s now 2:07 and my fuzzy brain can’t recall anything other than the fact that tomorrow is full of meetings and appointments. I have one bright and early, (so basically, in a few hours) up until evening… I should try to force my brain to bed perhaps…

slower than honey…

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21.} my own pillow, my own mattress, my own sheets and my own home…

22.} to come home and see my sweet dogs. My heart does not like going long periods of time without them.

23.} texting. While I’m not a fan of being tethered to my phone, (it happens, I’ll admit it) I’m really grateful for how easy texting makes certain things.

24.} I never thought I’d say this, but that my days of parenting littles are behind me.

25.} Seeing my dad and (finally) meeting his new wife. It had been 4 years since we’d seen him and that’s a long, long time. It was an unexpected visit and so good for my spirit.

26.} Seeing my sister Jennie. (It had been exactly 7 years since I’d seen her and that really was too long.)

27.} using my shampoo, there aren’t words for how great that was… (forgot to pack it. bought a replacement. It was BAD…)

28.} that the neglected stack of mail, from while we were gone, contained real letters too!

29.} For time to catch up on some reading.

30.} That my husband is feeling better. He’s hardly ever sick, so when he is, it’s horrible!

What are you grateful for, this week?

Lately…

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Maybe my eyes/ears are just a little more open, I’m finding myself a little more engaged and present or people are just really surprising me… Whichever the reason, I thought I’d share a little list of things I’ve witnessed or overheard, lately…

– We were stepping on the elevator, at the Hotel Blake in Chicago. Because he’s a nice guy, my husband said “Good evening” to two other ladies getting on as well. Their actual response was “Oh hey! Isn’t this hotel great because they have really great wifi!” (both were peering into their phones.) My husband, who travels for business often and gets some pretty crappy wifi replied “they do! It’s so nice compared to some slower-than-dial-up internet hotels have.” To which one lady just looks at him funny and the other says “yes, well, I don’t know what we would have done if they wouldn’t have had good internet!” The other girl laughed and said “Oh girl, could you imagine?” And they were back in their phones as we descended to the lobby. {note- this is a lovely hotel. it is in the heart of Printer’s Row, just a couple of blocks from Magnificent Mile. There are restaurants, shops, and things to do all around this hotel for blocks and blocks and blocks. This whole exchange left me very confused.}

– Earlier in the week our daughter Amanda had driven down to see us, and she brought her soon-to-be step-sons. We spent the afternoon at the hotel pool, which was nice. Towards the end of our time there, a man came in with his two kids. (probably around 8 & 10.) The dad and daughter go sit in the hot tub and the boy starts playing with my daughter’s oldest A (also 8). Then, the boy gets out and jumps in. A, very nicely gives this kid the heads up that there’s a big sign on the wall that says “NO JUMPING into pool.” When the kids dad happens to walk over (Cocky fellow) the kid says “dad, does it say I can’t jump?” And the dad says some inaudible response. My daughter pipes up, super nice and says “Actually, on that sign right there it says ‘No Jumping.'” To which the guy gives her a total jerk look, walks over, gets both boys attention and then proceeds to jump in the pool. {note- we all know this kind of guy. It oozed from him. If my husband hadn’t been working, this guy would have acted 100% different. Jerk.}

– On our voyage to The Container Store, while we were over in Chicagoland, a high school girl was texting while driving and ran off the road and plowed into a high-end car dealership. {note- how is this STILL happening?}

– Sitting at my doctor’s office, in the waiting room, I overheard this conversation (one sided) with one of the office girls who was on the phone:

well, we don’t accept Medicaid so you’ll have to find another physician’s office. 

Right, I understand you want to schedule an appointment, but we don’t take Medicaid and you don’t have insurance. 

Without insurance, you would need to pay cash and that would cost $278 for the visit and tests, which would have to be paid up front. I can help you find a doctor who accepts Medicaid. 

Miss, we don’t take Medicaid, I can’t schedule an appointment for you. You would have to pay cash. 

You are going to pay cash? $278. And you would need a credit card on file to cover anything else. How’s august 7th? 

{note- I’m not judging anyone who needs assistance, but if you need Medicaid, and you have it there to help you, A.) how can you afford to pay cash for a doctor, and B.) why would you?}

– We have been looking at houses, online. We are very casually toying with the idea of moving closer to Chw’s work. Some of the online home listings though, are ridiculous. Like close up photos of a candle centerpiece, from three different perspectives. And there you have 3 of the 9 house photos shown. (and 3 were of the view down the street, away from the house.) {note- certainly doesn’t make us want to rush out to see the house.}

– People literally run out, in CRAZY Chicago city traffic, to hail cabs from the middle of the street. {Note- FROM THE MIDDLE OF THE STREET.}

– While Chicago traffic was insane, a big 15 passenger van drove up on the sidewalk to pass the traffic. No care for pedestrians, or the like. {note- !!!!!!}

Have you witnessed or heard anything astounding lately?

Twitterature {July Edition}…

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Today I’m linking up with Anne over at Modern Mrs. Darcy for Twitterature, where we discuss what we are reading only condensed tweet size.

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Not today, but Someday by Lori L. Otto-

this book was YA but truthfully I’d be mortified (I think) if my teen read it. Lots of teen angsty stuff. The main (female) character’s dad had an affair and pretty much destroys their family. She seems to feel this only happened to her and that she is therefore justified in never considering anyone else’s feelings. Ever. It was a little much for me, honestly.

 

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Em and The Big Hoom by Jerry Pinto-

This is a book club book that I just haven’t gotten to yet. I read on vacation, but not as much as I’d hoped.

 

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Dead Until Dark by Charlaine Harris-

I waited a really long time to read this book because I’m not at all a fan of the “trashy” lit genre. That being said, they series was gifted to me, on kindle, ages ago and vacation seemed like a good time to try it. While I’d hesitate to recommend it unless you LOVE Vampires, don’t mind trashy books and are looking for that fits both of those, surprisingly, I liked it. Several friends and I are fans of the tv series and it was very interesting in that regard.

 

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A Loving Life by Paul E. Miller-

I’m still picking away at this. It’s a three-month book club and not a short book, but it feels very meaty. Maybe it’s where I’m at in life, I don’t know… It’s so good and I find myself highlighting so much. Tough subject matter these days though.

What have you been reading this summer?