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Hello, September…

Hello_September_photoI love autumn… I realize this is not altogether unique. While many love pumpkin everything, I can honestly say that I love the sweaters and the smells, the air and the colors but pumpkin isn’t at the top of my list. I thought I’d share some of my September projections…

 

Home~

 

beginning a bullet journal planner for 2017

a couple of small painting projects

reestablish a routine

 

Health~

lose 15lbs

drink water, water, water…

yoga

commit to my fitbit

no soda, fast food, or candy

 

 

Savor~

A few days in Chicago with my older daughter and her clan

me time

evening walks

new (to me) books

running the fire-place, on cool evenings

sweater weather

 

Connect~

celebrate our family anniversary of 13 years!

attend a women’s night to hopefully make connections and meet new people

handwritten letters

remembering birthdays

book club

Paint & Sip night, with a friend

 

Kitchen~

Bake bread

can apple butter

warm apple cider

mulled wine

What’s in your September aspirations, my friends?

 

 

Greatness…

I have been doing film reviews for well over a decade. I used to do them a lot more frequently because I wrote for a publication which often had me screening 2-4 films a week. Over the years I have slowed down. It’s funny because what developed in me, as a movie watcher, was a critical pickiness which often turned off the family or friends that watched it with me. I was analyzing so much that I wasn’t taking time to enjoy. Since movies are some of my absolute favorite things, this was a real crimp in my enjoyment of life. Once I began to notice it myself, I began to annoy myself.

I loved (and still do) quality indie films. Rom Coms, (which aren’t around much anymore) found me super cynical as I ripped them to shreds. Major blockbuster films often fared worse. The films which got the brunt of my criticism however were those films genred under the Christian label. I’d go into it usually annoyed before the opening credits, shredder ready. I made myself miserable…

I’ve calmed down a lot. Working in a critic vein isn’t healthy for anyone, for long. Nit picking has a way of souring someone. I was sour. It was sad. A few years ago a little movie came out titled Moms Night Out. I had so many friends who went and loved it. Being in that genre I would usually avoid it, but this one afternoon I made an exception. Were there things in it that I could have torn apart? Yes. Was the quality Academy worthy? No. But the most important question is: Did I enjoy it? I did. And I watched as my husband and youngest left the theater appearing to be bracing themselves for my rainstorm of misery. The shock and awe which rippled in waves through their expressions was not lost on me.

In the last year I have made an effort to rewatch several of the Christian themed films I had hated. Maybe it’s because my life was beyond broken. Maybe it is because I had been rained down upon and shredded by a few people who felt entitled to critique my life. Maybe it is simply that I was looking anywhere for inspiration, hope and direction. (If you’re wondering, yes, my opinions were different. Perspective is everything.)

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When I was asked to screen and review Greater, I was not thrilled. I accepted because I love movies and will watch most anything. I wasn’t super excited about it though because, well- other than being a football movie, (not my thing) old habits die hard. I was afraid I would tear it to bits. I’m not.

Greater is the story of, as I’ve now mentioned on this blog a dozen + times, the story of Brandon Burlsworth. Brandon was a football player for University of Arkansas. His story is the very epitome of an underdog rising to the top in an extraordinary way. This part of his story is uplifting, inspiring, moving and every single thing a film should be. The high points for me were:

  • the film is not strong religious. It is honest in its story about this boy’s life.
  • the cinematography is beautiful. There are scenes so poetically shot that my heart caught in my throat.
  • the performances in this movie are raw and authentic. The human struggles they portray are relatable and felt.
  • Christopher Severio (Brandon) is very watchable, relatable and is so believable, in this role, that it’s natural to root for him.

These things, of their own, could be enough. The real meat of the story though, is not Brandon’s story at all, but his brother’s. Is this part of the tale fictionalized? I don’t know. It doesn’t matter, because Brandon’s brother Marty (played flawlessly by Neal McDonough) is a story we all will struggle with a million times before we die. It is the struggle for our hearts. The battle between allowing our perception of any given circumstance to be one of the misery it involves, or allowing ourselves to step out and embrace the beauty and love floating within the misery.

Though this movie is under the Christian genre, this film (to me) is simply a life film. A film about how to grieve, and how not to grieve. A story about how to live, versus how not to live. A big picture motivator to remind us that our lives are so much bigger than the seconds we make mundane decisions for today, and we leave behind a legacy that can extend far beyond us. Each and every one of us… There is a greatness in our lives that often times we choose to ignore in favor of the less-than-great.

If Greater opens near you, I really encourage you to see it. I doubt you’d be sorry…

The post about Dreams and Goals… {a giveaway}

 

greaterMy youngest is a senior in high school, this year! That is insane and incomprehensible, honestly. There are so many things about this which I am not ready for. What really overwhelms me is that next year I won’t be school supply shopping for anyone at home.

My older daughter Amanda has two school aged step sons. I love having a reason to peruse the back-to-school stuff again. It’s so fun and I want to simply buy all of the things. Of course I do not, but I want to. Crisp paper, colored folders and the air cooling a bit all play together well creating my favorite season.

Back to Gen and her senior year though- The entire school year ahead feels like a challenge. It’s her senior year and she made the decision to finish high school online. She has goals that involve college and a career in marketing, but staying in a traditional school seemed to be taking her farther from these goals. She’s also a young seventeen year old so it is quite possible that those dreams may change a few times over the months that follow. I know that I am trying to keep my heart afloat and not stress too much over the two semesters ahead. If it matters, my dream for her is simply that she finish school in a way she is proud of and that whatever happens between now and that cap & tassle day is the stuff that confidence is made from. If you’ve read here for long, you’ll remember it’s been quite a difficult journey for my wee girl. She deserves the best, I pray every morning that she will find belief in that, for herself.

That is one of the things I really loved about Brandon Burlsworth’s story in the film Greater. He shows us the value of, not just the goals and dreams themselves, but of the hard work that goes into them. As a mom I have a lot that I can do to make this heart vision I have for her a reality…

I’m partnering with Grace Hill Media this week in anticipation of the theatrical release of the film Greater. We would love to hear what challenges, goals or dreams you have as this school year begins. One lucky winner will receive a $25 gift card to WalMart, perfect for those school supply needs! Deadline for entries is Saturday August 27th at midnight.

 

A life of character…

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I am not sure if any of my readers have heard of the football player Brandon Burlsworth. Without knowing the details of Brandon’s personal life, he might not seem like that big of a deal in the grand NFL scheme of things. Most of my football friends and family, whom I’ve asked, had no clue who this amazing kid was. It sounds a little cliche to say that, now that I am aware of Brandon, my life will never be the same. It has been a couple of weeks since I screened Greater with my 17-year-old daughter Gen, and I can honestly say we reference Brandon or compare our own motivations and actions to bits of the film on an almost daily basis.

Chris Severio got the opportunity to play Brandon in the up and coming film Greater. Chris himself says that actors often wait a long time to play a role as meaty and meaningful as the role of Brandon. Though I plan to talk more one day next week, about the film itself, today I want to touch on the character of Brandon. I’m also going to share some quotes on the character of Brandon, written by Chris Severio, along the way.

From an outsiders perspective, Brandon had a dream football experience, but he had this because he believed he could and then he was willing to work hard for it. I don’t mean to come down hard on this current youth-to-young adult generation but the spirit of hard work and earning your way seems to be lost on the majority of them. As an “old grown up”, (I turned 40 this year) it comes across as geriatric nagging when I talk about it, but most adults seem to get it.

Brandon never let anyone convince him that he couldn’t. This idea is misconstrued a lot of the time, by people using that as a reason to make self-centered or poor choices. I need to point out that isn’t what I mean. I mean simply put, Brandon had a goal and he worked really hard for it, maybe more than hard. Even when the people around him thought it was a lost cause, he still worked for it. From Chris, Brandon was not the most physically gifted athlete. He struggled with being overweight, wasn’t naturally graceful, was a pretty unlikely candidate to be a college football All-American and then drafted into the NFL. He was able to do it all because he refused to listen to those who doubted him or his abilities. He always believed in himself, knew that through hard work and dedication, he could be anything he wanted to be. The only thing standing between you and your dreams is how passionately you’re willing to produce them.

Brandon dedicated his entire life and the things that he did to bigger than himself. As Chris says, It’s no coincidence the film of Brandon’s life is called GREATER. As a Christian, he believed he was called to be a man of integrity and honor off the field as well as on – he dedicated himself, first and foremost, to God.  Your faith can strengthen you, and like Brandon you can choose to be a role model on and off the field.

He believed in others and this way of living motivated other people to do great things too. He lived a life of putting others before himself, even when it wasn’t comfortable. As Chris states, Brandon Burlsworth was a giver. He didn’t just play football, or live his life, focused exclusively on his wants. He made others’ needs a top priority – family, teammates, friends and fans. As he dug in deep to reach his potential as an athlete and a man, he encouraged and supported those who were taking that same journey alongside him. Brandon didn’t just make himself better; he made others better, too, because he was intentional about finding ways to help them.

Here’s a clip from the film GreaterThe story of Brandon is a moving one. When one looks at the dreams he had, the drive he had to make them real, and the many ways this one person’s life has changed to many others, is almost unfathomable and so unbelieving motivational. At the end of the day it isn’t because he was great in his sport, which he was. It isn’t because he was an unlikely hero, or because he had such a powerful success story. The legacy of Brandon lives on and on because of his character. As an avid reader and writer, I am addicted to highlighting. I love to highlight things written which really stand out and stir me. If films could be highlighted, this entire movie would be orange and neon yellow and brought to you by BIC. 

I have a couple of Jerseys to give away, in honor of the film. For a chance to win, simply leave a comment on the blog or FB post! Good luck!

Hello, August…

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I’ve been back in Michigan for a little over two months and after moving, and moving, and sitting on the brink of moving again, I’m finally starting to find a normal feeling. Everything still feels fragile and a bit surreal, but I’m attempting to move forward-one foot in front of the other- and here’s my hopes for this month we call August.

Home~

upcycling a serving tray

Being inside less and outside more

downsizing to a capsule wardrobe

experimenting more with essential oils

 

Health~

get back to a good work-out routine

swim, swim, swim

yoga, at least once a week

bike rides

Savor~

quality time with my husband and kids (when possible)

me time

evening walks

reading, poolside

Connect~

counseling

handwritten letters

remembering birthdays

attending a book club

going on a photography adventure

Kitchen~

focussing on fresh & locally sourced meals

loads & loads of sun tea

grilled fish with fresh herbs

scones with lemon curd & Devonshire cream

homemade ice cream

Read~

Present Over Perfect

Kisses from Katie

Where’d you go, Bernadette

The Jesus Centered Life

Watching~

Season 7 of the Good Wife

Season 3 of Parks & Rec

Suicide Squad

Ben Hur